December 2, 2022

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How my HIV standing influenced my vogue organization and saved my lifestyle

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By Daniel Grier

“Why in shape in when you ended up born to stand out?”  — Dr. Seuss

Expanding up a Black, gay man from the South born into a tremendous spiritual household, my sexuality was normally up for discussion—even while, I did not know for confident that I was homosexual right until substantially later on. However, individuals spread rumors about me my total childhood and bullied me in university. Everybody was normally attempting to determine me out. I felt pretty misunderstood, out of spot, like I did not belong to any specified group or tribe. I felt like I was often walking all-around keeping my breath.

During these yrs I was frightened of gay people, way too. I didn’t understand them, and I did not believe I fit in with them possibly. No subject what I would do to blend in or conform to societal norms I would nevertheless stand out for just remaining myself.

Then I found the independence of manner. It was seriously the only place that built perception, the only place where by I could just be me.  It is what came pure to me. It was my convenience and my inventive outlet. As a baby I would use any fabrics I could locate to make outfits that I would visualize major stars wearing on the purple carpet. And I’d use my allowance to invest in fashion publications. My top secret weapon has always been my model and the way I gown. I have the eye, as they would say.

Trend is my superpower. And in 2013, style saved my daily life. In the summer season of that identical 12 months, as I was finishing up my junior year of school, I went in for a program checkup and observed out I was HIV favourable.

I invested the summer time on the couch experience depressed, hopeless, and even suicidal. But I decided not to stop my everyday living bodily but that I had to end the preceding existence as I knew it to move forward. I dropped out of college or university, give up my task, and set out on a entirely new route. In the fall of 2013, I founded my outfits brand name, Splashed by DKG.

Splashed by DKG gave me reason all over again with my initial love— trend. Using my art to build my self-assurance, I established out to depart my mark on the globe. I started introducing my signature “Splash” to give new existence to clothes from vintage stores and mates. I commenced to develop daring artwork that created men and women satisfied and really feel like superheroes completely ready to get on the globe. For after, I was ready to include price that was appreciated on my conditions.  I want men and women to know that just like I get an old garment and give it a new daily life, they can also commence more than in lifestyle, paint a new photograph, and make a “Splash.” Splashed by DKG not only can make a “Splash” with our patterns but we also get the job done to elevate awareness of issues like domestic violence, HIV, social injustice, LGBTQ legal rights, and far more.

As my brand rose to acceptance, I set out to make a different Splash, this time to emphasize the numerous but usually ignored talent in my hometown of Birmingham, Alabama. In 2017, my associate and I co-started Magic Metropolis Vogue Week, an inclusive platform for creatives to showcase and sharpen their skills on the large phase. I preferred folks to get a nearer look at why I do what I do, how I overcame my struggles, and how I use my voice and platform to amplify others’ voices. To day, MCFW has lifted income for HIV consciousness, partnered with around 50 Birmingham-based mostly enterprises, administered hundreds of HIV assessments, hosted systems to greater teach people today about HIV, highlighted various artists of shade, presented funding to emerging designers, and proceeds to elevate the bar for the innovative group in the metropolis.

The Splashed by DKG manufacturer has been showcased in around 50 vogue shows, 4 manner weeks, and a variety of blogs and journals. And my childhood aspiration of dressing superstars is coming accurate, too. Ty Hunter, Tamar Braxton, and Mali Songs have all worn my models. And most lately you can come across Splashed by DKG on the address of Syleena Johnson’s “Woman” album.

I hope my tale inspires folks to keep heading no subject what and to usually don’t forget you simply cannot screw up your future. Commence in excess of and make a Splash.

Born and raised in Birmingham, Alabama, Daniel Grier is the founder of Splashed by DKG, a daring, luxury streetwear brand identified for its statement prints and custom styles. Daniel also serves as co-founder and resourceful director of Magic City Style Week and is the father of an wonderful twelve-calendar year-previous son named Aedan.